I just want to add my two cents here.
Since we have Jews and non-Jews here, we have to remember to be sensitive when writing about the houses of worship of other members religions.
For example, I remember reading on a blog about some church that had a lesbian women minister (or whatever they're called). And there was this other church where the female minister actually became a Muslim. For a while she actually practiced both faiths. But she was eventually defrocked when word got our of her conversion to Islam. I have no problem with saying or writing that these people are crazy. But that's as far as I'll go.
Now getting back to that gay friendly "Temple" that was a target of Muslim terrorists. You guys are all missing the point. This is not about supporting homosexuality. That place was a terror target because it was seen as a Jewish house of worship. So arguing about whether or not the place is a "bathhouse" is irrelevant in this case. Those Moosies were after Jews, period.
Here's something else to consider. I remember either reading about, or hearing on an old Ask JTF show about how, in the days of the old JDL, some black race pimp was trying to hit up Jews for reparations to blacks. Anyway, I don't remember all the details. But somehow this person was able to get a group of Jews at some Conservative or Reform "Temple" to let him speak there. (I guess he threatened and whined his way in.) When the JDL found out about this, they pretty much took over the place, and threatened to beat the snot out of that schvartza if he came near the building. Did they care that these were self hating Jews? In this case, no! To that black race pimp and his fans, those were just Jews. To not come to their defense, even though they were self-hating, would have only reinforced the message that Jews are weak pushovers.